I THINK I KNOW WHY MONA LISA IS SMILING
Good Morning, everyone! I hope your week is progressing nicely. Mine, not so much! My dad was taken to the hospital on Monday night with some strange symptoms. He couldn’t talk, was agitated, confused, glassy-eyed, and didn’t feel good. All of the tests came back fine, so we are still trying to figure out what is wrong. Hopefully, today will be the day! Why do I have a photo of Mona Lisa and why do I think I know why she is smiling? I’m about to tell you.
Why is breast cancer the gift that keeps on giving?
This is a hard post for me to write because I am going to tell you some very private things. Some things you only say to your best friends. Well, you all are like my best friends, right? I am discussing my vagina (which shall be called Hoo-Hah for this post). If you don’t want to hear about my Hoo-Hah, then exit this page now! Let me go back to over five years ago when my lady parts were just fine and start there. I have never had a problem with dryness down south and felt good about that part of my life. Then cancer hit and then chemo was given (dose-dense).
When I visited my gynecologists after my chemo was over, and after looking up my Hoo-Hah, she remarked that breast cancer was the gift that kept on giving. I asked her why she said that and she told me it was because my Hoo-Hah was starting to look like every other cancer patients vagina she sees. The chemo dries them out. Lovely! She wanted me to start on a low dose estrogen pill. After having cancer, everything has to be run by my oncologist who quickly said “no way!”. The only thing she would let me use was something called, Vagifem, but only twice a week. Vagifem is a little pill that is inserted via a “smaller than a pencil” applicator up to the Hoo-Hah. My cancer was not hormonally fed, but she still wouldn’t agree to anything more.
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Let’s just say that sex (okay you can skip this if you want TMI!) started to feel like shards of glass up the Hoo- Hah, accompanied by bleeding. So fun, right? You can imagine how badly I wanted to participate in that (not)!!! Each year at my gyno appointment the same thing is said by my doctor…” you have the driest vagina east of the Pecos River” (not what you want your Facebook profile to say) and each year my oncologist says ” absolutely not” to anything with estrogen. My gynecologist sat me down this past October and told me that if I don’t do something, that my bladder will be affected. I had already had some bladder spasms, so it scared me a little.
Enter The MonaLisa Touch. My doctor sent me to a urologist who confirmed that I needed to do something. He suggested the Mona Lisa and sent me on my way to a group who performed this procedure. The MonaLisa is an FDA approved, Co2 fractional laser treatment for vaginal revitalization. It’s is safe and painless (not the first one), and delivers immediate and long-lasting relief for menopausal or in my case chemo and menopausal symptoms. The MonaLisa Touch delivers gentle laser energy to the vaginal wall which in turn stimulates a healing response with enhanced moisture levels in the ol’ Hoo-Hah canal. Most women only need three procedures done every six weeks. If you have been through chemo, like me, we get to go for four or five (lucky us!).
Five Minutes is all it took
When I went for my first procedure, I was very apprehensive. The machine is a little scary looking, and the probe is a bit larger than I imagined. A friend of mine, that had already had this done, recommended that I get numbing cream for my first experience. I did and am so glad that I asked for it. The nurse practitioner examined me and said that my Hoo-Hah looks like all of the chemo patients she’s seen.
What did that mean? She noted that the color is pale and I was bone dry. Thanks, cancer! Anyway, once the probe was inserted, it did not hurt at all. I could feel pressure but no pain, and it literally took five minutes. Also, I was a little sore that night, but no bleeding. I have since been back for my second treatment and did not have to use the numbing cream which was a great sign.
So I bet you are wondering if this is helping.
Do you remember the Vagifem applicator, that is as small as a pencil, I was telling you about? That applicator used to hurt while inserting but now I can pop it right up there with no pain at all. And, as far as sex, that’s my business, you naughty girls! Seriously, The MonaLisa Touch is for anyone who experiences, painful sex, vaginal dryness, itching, burning, or urinary incontinence (younger women experience some of these symptoms as well).
Many patients have reported that they have relief right away and some by the second treatment or week six. The MonaLisa provides lasting results and a once year refresher is recommended to maintain symptom relief. As of now, it is not covered by insurance (but penile implants are, and that’s really fair!)
This post is not sponsored.
I thought long and hard about whether or not to write it, but I think many women don’t know that this is an available option and I felt, as your friend, that I should share it with you. We are all going to go through menopause and you know what the symptoms are. At least this is one way that can help minimize dryness or any other symptoms you may have. If you are looking for The MonaLisa Touch, I suggest talking to your gynecologist and asking for a reference. If you are in Dallas, I recommend North Dallas Med Spa (214-577-1777). Ask to speak to Holly.
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Well now, that was probably too much information about my Hoo-Hah. What are you all doing this week? xx
Tanya Foster
January 16, 2019 @ 7:58 am
Cathy,
You are so honest and brave! That’s What I LOVE about you! ❤️
Thanks for sharing.
xoxo- Tanya
http://www.tanyafoster.com
Gigi Schilling
January 16, 2019 @ 8:10 am
Hello beautiful and soooo stylish Cathy, this article is extremely important, thank you very much for sharing it.
And I hope your Dad feels better and will find out what is wrong.
xoxogg
Cathy Williamson
January 16, 2019 @ 8:15 am
Hi, Sweet and Gorgeous, Gigi! I hope you are doing well! Thank you for your kindness! I hope that this helps someone experiencing what I have been dealing with! xx
Cathy Williamson
January 16, 2019 @ 8:16 am
Hey, Tanya! Either it’s brave or stupid! Thank you for that sweet comment!!! xx
Joanne
January 16, 2019 @ 9:25 am
I think it is important to talk “out loud” about stuff like this. Thanks for sharing! I am turning 50 this year and have started peri-menopause, so yay for that! 🙂 I have tried to be honest with my kids (15 and 18) about why mom starts sweating and getting red in the face at the dinner table. It’s nice to be able to talk out loud and not be embarrassed by something that is just happening as part of getting older.
Hope your dad is ok. Dealing with some issues with my parents as well, so can relate
Rosalie Williams
January 16, 2019 @ 9:38 am
Thank you Cathy! Great post and valuable information!
Ashley
January 16, 2019 @ 9:48 am
I sincerely appreciate your honesty. It is so refreshing but more importantly, it is truly helpful! Thank you.
Sending positive thoughts to you and your family.
Cathy Williamson
January 16, 2019 @ 9:58 am
Rosalie! Thank you for the comment! xx
Lisa P
January 16, 2019 @ 10:19 am
Very informative. Thanks Cathy. And my prayers to your family and Dad, especially.
Marlene Rizzo
January 16, 2019 @ 11:35 am
Hope your Dad is feeling better soon. It’s amazing that you find the courage to share such private information. I know that it is useful to many women and I appreciate you sharing it. I will keep what you have shared in mind if I ever suffer with that dryness.
You are an incredible woman.
Sincerely,
Marlene
Jeila
January 16, 2019 @ 12:45 pm
Oh my!!! Love her smoking a cig afterwards! To funny, great post, going to have to look into that procedure????
Amy
January 16, 2019 @ 3:41 pm
Bravo, Cathy! Even in this modern enlightened time, there are important topics that simply aren’t shared enough. Thank you for overcoming your hesitancy!
Deanna
January 16, 2019 @ 4:00 pm
This is one of the many reasons I love you …you are so real and tell it how it is! Beautifully written my friend!
Charlotte Alger
January 16, 2019 @ 4:09 pm
Wow, I had no idea such procedures were available. Thanks for opening up and keeping us informed.
Wishing your Dad only blessings.
Beth
January 16, 2019 @ 4:41 pm
You are hysterical and I am so glad you can talk about anything. We need to be having these conversations. Lube is definitely our friend as we age and whole foods has some natural ones that can be incredibly helpful! I used to use vagifem but my doctor now doesn’t like it (she thinks it is too hard and doesn’t always dissolve). She now prefers Imvexxy which comes from a small lab in Florida. If you need more info, just let me know. Best of luck with your Dad and thanks again for being you!
Donna Dorsey
January 16, 2019 @ 6:06 pm
Awesome article and so informative! I so admire your courage and sincerity. You are so very, very special???????? Give Charlie a big hug for me. Sometimes a medication mix up causes those symptoms (an accidental double dose, interactions etc…) He will be in my prayers!
Hilda Smith
January 17, 2019 @ 9:20 am
Thanks Cathy, no one ever told us about dryness post menopause, because no one ever talked about it. And of course chemo makes it much much worse. I use coconut oil and did discreetly discuss it in a post a few years ago on the many uses of coconut oil….. it works for us…
Hope your dad ok. xxx
Deborah
February 20, 2019 @ 9:45 am
I finally read the Mona Lisa piece. It is so well written. You are amazing. You are providing a real service to women speaking about our options. Keep using your voice. I am sure it is being heard. XO Deeb
Beth Thurman
February 24, 2020 @ 6:45 pm
Cathy,
I am thinking of having this surgery. Was it worth the money now that it has been a while? Also do you take any precription drugs for your bone loss?
Cathy Williamson
February 26, 2020 @ 7:44 am
Hi, Beth! Just so you know, it’s not really a surgery. It is a treatment that is recommended you do at least 3 times. My situation required four and I will need to do touch-ups. My answer is YES! Without getting too graphic, it helped the inner parts tremendously but the outer is still an issue for me. My case is different in that chemotherapy makes this so much worse. If you are having issues, I would highly consider doing it, however, make sure you go to someone reputable! xx
patty comeford
September 25, 2020 @ 1:27 am
Important post. Thanks for writing it xoxo
Cathy Williamson
September 25, 2020 @ 6:31 am
Aww, happy to share it!
Foodporn in warman
January 20, 2024 @ 5:20 am
Whoa, I had no idea that these kinds of operations existed. We appreciate you being transparent and informing us. Sending blessings to your father.
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