I hate to bring it up…but I have to talk about bathing suits. Boo!!! We are taking a much needed vacay to the islands in a few weeks, and I will need to wear one. I hate trying them on, but I swear, the mirrors and lighting make it ten times worse (what is the deal with those mirrors anyway?). I prefer to order on line and try them in my own bathroom with my own mirror. When you are “middle age” it sucks to do this I know, but I think drinking a few glasses of wine helps! I am always in a quandary as to what kind I should be wearing at my age…a one piece, or can I still pull off a two piecer? My favorite sites for ordering are Shopbop and J.Crew (J.Crew also has special sizes for the “gifted” boob girl and also long torso girl), because they have the best selection for the fashion-conscious middle aged woman.