THREE
Good Morning and welcome to a long holiday weekend! Are you wondering what the number 3 is for? I am so happy to tell you that today is my three year cancerversary! It is a BIG one in the life of a Triple Negative Breast Cancer survivor! You see, statistically, the majority of triple negative recurrences take place during the first three years after diagnosis. The risk still remains relatively high through year five. After this high-risk period, the likelihood of a relapse declines and eventually becomes lower than that of other types of breast cancer. At my last oncology visit, my doctor told me that three years is a great sign! WooHoo!!!
So, today I am celebrating my life! I am so blessed to be here, and know that God is in control. Do I still worry? It is ALWAYS in the back of my head, but I really try not to think about it. It’s weird saying that coming from me, a former hypochondriac, but it’s the truth. What is my worry going to help or change? What I do believe, is that I am healed, thanks to my amazing doctors and Jesus Christ. I know He wants me healthy and whole! I also believe in having a really positive attitude, as I think the mind is a very strong force.
I am so thankful for this blog, as it has given me the most amazing gift. I have had women reach out to me who have cancer (particularly breast), have a family member going through it, or are survivors. I love fashion and playing dress up, but when I get an email from someone who is getting ready to have surgery or start treatment, it is my time to give back. What was the scariest time in my life, has turned into the greatest privilege for me! I would not change a thing!
Thank you all for being so supportive and reading this (mostly fluff) blog. It has given me so many amazing opportunities and a focus, so that my brain has much more to think about than cancer! I hope you all have a wonderful July 4th weekend. Be safe, and…I have to say it…be sure you are on top of your mammograms and self checks! Much love from me!!!
July 1, 2016 @ 7:40 am
Cathy– Thank you for your wonderful positive attitude. You are always a joy to read (and sometimes fluff is definitely fun!). Have a terrific holiday weekend, Beth
July 1, 2016 @ 8:05 am
Cathy, I am so proud of you and your very positive attitude. You have definitely not let cancer define you, even while using it to reach out to others who need some support and education.
Three is a great number, and five will be even better. God is good!
Love you
July 1, 2016 @ 8:06 am
Happy cancerversary to you Cathy!
I am during my chemotheraphy because of breast cancer and cannot wait to have it behind me and enjoy my first cancerversary. Now I keep my mind with you and I`m happy to see you enjoying your life. I hope to have so positive attitude as you have. Best regards, Joanna
July 1, 2016 @ 9:06 am
Congratulations on your 3 year cancerversary!!! I celebrate YOU today! Much joy to you! And thanks for your blog. I always enjoy your posts.
July 1, 2016 @ 9:28 am
God is good. What a wonderful anniversary to celebrate! You go girl! Much love and many blessings this weekend.
July 1, 2016 @ 9:29 am
Hey Kathy,
What a blessing you are to so many people!!! I have so enjoyed keeping up with you and your blog and sharing it with my friends and getting to say that I know you. You look amazing and I will continue to keep you in my prayers! Happy 4th weekend and I hope you celebrate today and everyday!
July 1, 2016 @ 9:31 am
All the best to you. Keep having that great attitude on your life, and never loose faith. God’s with you!
July 1, 2016 @ 9:34 am
Cathy – Praise the Lord for 3 years! Nu.6:24-25.
fondly,
Täni
July 1, 2016 @ 9:45 am
HUGE Congratulations!!! Such a blessing. xo
July 1, 2016 @ 9:54 am
We love 3! My mom just had her big 3 with Triple Negative. Congrats!
July 1, 2016 @ 10:00 am
CONGRATULATIONS CATHY!!!
SUCH GOOD NEWS!:) love, sissy
July 1, 2016 @ 10:52 am
Congratulations! That is great news. I can imagine the peace and satisfaction and hope it gives you.
July 1, 2016 @ 11:26 am
Beautiful post. These anniversaries are worth celebrating!! I am a 22-year survivor of Stage IV breast cancer and am grateful for each passing year. ?
July 1, 2016 @ 11:40 am
Goodness, Cathy, I’m new around here and had no idea. I am so very happy for you that you have reached this important milestone. May God continue to keep you smack dab in the middle of His mighty right hand. Also happy that you are wise enough to have learned that worry resolves nothing and steals much. Lastly, and this on a more selfish note, happy you have this blog. It blesses many of us of a certain age who want a more sophisticated look. God bless!
July 1, 2016 @ 12:22 pm
Congratulations Cathy! Love your attitude AND all of the fluff!!
July 1, 2016 @ 1:45 pm
great news, Cathy to have your 3 years cancer free anniversary. Blessings on you and may you have many more anniversaries to celebrate. .
July 1, 2016 @ 2:15 pm
Cathy, this is a great day for you. I’ve read your blog from right around the time of your surgery. We, your readers, celebrate this day with you. Thanks for taking the time to share your experiences and for being so open! Many prayers coming your way.
July 1, 2016 @ 4:00 pm
That is wonderful news! I was the excited “fan” that saw you recently at the Green Hills I Love Juice Bar. You looked beautiful and healthy! You are such an inspiration to so many women. Thank you! I will be
praying for your good health to continue.
July 1, 2016 @ 5:45 pm
Congratulations on your anniversary!! May you have many many more.
Many Blessings to you and your Family!!
July 3, 2016 @ 12:19 am
You are such an inspiration to so many! God bless you Cathy!
Love you,
Brigitte
July 4, 2016 @ 7:45 am
Congratulations! Celebrate BIG! You deserve it! Thank you for using your experience to bless and inspire others.?
July 4, 2016 @ 1:52 pm
Hi Joanna!Thank you, and Bless you girl! I know how you feel, and you will be there before you know it…I promise! Just try to keep positive, as I really think your brain is so powerful. Wishing you much health and love!!!!!
July 4, 2016 @ 1:53 pm
Hi Judy! Thank you so much!!! I am very blessed! Thank you for reading and commenting! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 1:54 pm
Thank you so much Carmen! It is great to be here and be healthy!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 1:55 pm
Hi Wendy! You are so sweet! Thank you for sharing my blog! I am so happy and blessed to be here! Hope you are doing well too! Sending you big hug and lots of love!!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 1:57 pm
Hi Maria! Thank you so much! I am not going to lose faith, and I do know that God is with me!!!! Thank you for such a sweet comment!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 1:59 pm
Hi Jo-Lynne! Thank you so much! I am truly blessed, and have so much sweet support! Hope you are doing well! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:00 pm
Hey Carol! YAY for your mom! I am celebrating with you all! Love number 3 too! Now I am looking forward to 5! Give your mom a big hug for me! Thank you for sending me this comment!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:01 pm
Awww, thank you Sis! Hope you are doing well!!!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:04 pm
Mary!!! You are an inspiration for me!!! I am so happy for you, and hope to follow in your footsteps! Thank you for reading the post! Wishing you lots of love and health!!!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:07 pm
Hi Maggie! Not to worry! Thank you so much for reading and commenting! I want to be exactly where you said, right in the middle of God’s hand!!! Thank you so much and big hugs to you!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:08 pm
Awwww, thank you Mona! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:13 pm
Hi Cher! Thank you so much! I am so blessed to be here!!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:14 pm
Hi Mary! Thank you so much for being a long time reader, and for the sweet well wishes. I am so blessed to be here!!! Thank you for the prayers, I will always accept those! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:17 pm
Hi Ann! Thank you so much for your sweet words, I so appreciate them! It was so nice to meet you at the Juice Bar. I am so blessed to have such sweet readers! Hope to run into you again!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:19 pm
Hi Tani! Thank you so much, honey! Love that verse too! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:19 pm
Hi Brigitte! Thank you so much, and thank you for being so supportive!!! xoxo
July 4, 2016 @ 2:20 pm
Hi Lori! Thank you so much for your sweet words! xoxo
July 5, 2016 @ 7:44 am
Congratulations!!!
July 5, 2016 @ 12:15 pm
Great post sweetie! I’m so proud of you and thank God everyday for you???
July 11, 2016 @ 1:40 pm
Thank you so much Jeila! I am one blessed girl! xoxo
July 11, 2016 @ 1:40 pm
Thank you so much!!!! xoxo
July 20, 2022 @ 2:17 pm
Thank you for your post, I am coming up to my 3rd year cancerversay. I also had triple negative breast cancer and like you give thanks to God and my family and friends for getting me here xx hope you continue to be well , I’ve only just started looking at your blog. Xx God bless