THE BLUES
THE BLUES
Good Morning, everyone! I hope you all had a great weekend! We had such a fun one! The grandkids came in on Saturday, and we had a family dinner to celebrate my oldest son’s birthday. We did it up big, so much that everyone was dragging the first part of the day on Sunday. We all rallied for my daughter’s baby shower that afternoon. It was a couples shower, and everyone had so much fun! My daughter and boyfriend move into their new house next week, and it will be so fun to help get the nursery in order. Also, I cannot wait to meet our third grandchild!
I am showing the blues today, but I promise it is not my attitude. I wore this look a few weeks back to an event at Alice and Olivia and a birthday party. This jacket has been one of my favorites since I got it. I love the tweed mixed with the denim and the “Chanel” style of the piece. I have worn this jacket with the jeans I am wearing and with white jeans and plan to wear it with darker blue denim and black. Every time I have worn it, I have gotten so many compliments.
Styling with The Blues
I have loved the jeans I am wearing for a change of pace. Honestly, I think a boyfriend style looks so good with a dressed-up top and a heel. I was having a conversation with both my daughter’s in-law about skinny jeans. They are in their 30’s and are over them for the time being. I still like them for certain outfits, but I think the boyfriend or straighter leg looks more current. They are definitely more comfortable!
My sandals are about two years old, but I wear them a lot because they are YSL and I don’t need another black pair yet, and I want to get my money’s worth. This brings me to something that is bothering me. I don’t want to ever push things on you all. I am simply writing this blog to give you some inspiration on outfits and to give you some insight into what is going on with me (not that that is ever very exciting).
I’m sure you all get sick of seeing the same bag, shoes, or sunglasses, but I am truly authentic in what I like and wear, and if I pay a lot for something, I want to wear it! I think if something works for you, then keep wearing or doing it; however, I have a reader that does not like my sunglasses and has told me in a “not so nice” way several times.
I never thought that I would have a hater or two in a community of mostly over 50 aged women. Honestly, why would you come to my blog if you don’t like what I wear or say? So, I thought we might be at a place in life where we didn’t write ugly things to others. I can’t imagine sitting behind my computer and writing something hurtful to someone. Things like, you look like an alien or I hate those stupid sunglasses.
However, it happens all the time to people. I just somehow thought our age group was over that insecurity. I know that I shouldn’t let one or two people get me down, but I do have feelings, and it does upset me (even though I don’t know this person). Some may say it’s part of the territory when you put yourself out there. That may be true, but I’m afraid I have to disagree with being unkind. Life is hard enough!
I can truly say, except for a very few, that you all reading this blog are a very kind group of women, and I appreciate it so much. I wouldn’t still be doing this if you were not. Thank you for your support and the kind words that you write. I don’t get to respond to all of them because I don’t have the time to do it all, but I read every single comment.
The kids are here for the week (their parents included), and my in-laws are coming in today to stay until Friday. They haven’t seen anyone (except my husband and myself) in over eighteen months. It’s going to be a jam-packed week for me, but so much fun to have everyone here. I am going to need a vacation in the next couple of weeks!
I hope you have a great day! Thank you for reading and for being a special group of women! xx
Photos: Beckley & Co
Jacket (gifted) // Tee // Jeans // Belt (similar) // Shoes (similar) // Earrings // Bag
June 8, 2021 @ 9:46 am
I can’t believe that people feel the need to say something mean. Did their parents not teach them the golden rule of “If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all”? I love that you wear the same thing more than once and if you love it and feel good in it, that’s what matters!
Keep up the great work!
June 8, 2021 @ 9:56 am
Cathy – I’ve been reading your blog for awhile now and have NEVER left a comment. However, today felt like the day to let you know that I think you’re simply stunning…everything about you! I firmly believe that how people treat you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves! Keep posting!!
June 8, 2021 @ 9:56 am
It is a shame about those comments. Perhaps what they were TRYING to say was “you have beautiful eyes and should show them off whenever you can”!😉
June 8, 2021 @ 9:59 am
I love what you said about thinking at this point in life surely women are over that insecurity. So sad that they haven’t matured enough to handle their issues in a more positive way. I love your emails and enjoy all your shopping suggestions. Thank you for sharing and putting your self out there!!!
June 8, 2021 @ 10:00 am
Great blog as always. You’re very positive. And although your world is much different than mine (Canada, continued lockdown, etc) I always appreciate you sharing your stories. It’s inspiring. Have a wonderful day. Oh, and I rock the boyfriend jeans all the time, even when skiinies were in. ‘Go your own way’, as Fleetwood Mac would say:)
June 8, 2021 @ 7:24 pm
You look great, Cathy…. so darn cute, seriously!! You seem like you’re a lot of fun too. Don’t let those negative comments get you down. Remind yourself how God sees you. 💕
June 8, 2021 @ 10:03 am
I look forward to reading your posts, not only for the fashion tips (I did buy one of the dresses you modeled for a summer party dress and I love it!), but also for your positive outlook on life. I agree with you, why would someone subscribe to your blog just to be negative and hurtful. If we all agreed on everything; thought, wore, and ate the same things, it would be a boring world. We need to celebrate our individuality and embrace others unique style. Your dog is adorable!!
June 8, 2021 @ 10:05 am
Hi Cathy, ” the blues” looks very good on you. I like the stylish jacket combined with the ripped jeans. That is what I love about your blog: You combine different styles which gives me inspiration as well to change some of my clothing habits. Don’t let those haters let you down, I really don’t know the reason why they are sending such hurtful comments, but let them be, and just focus on all the joy and good advice you bring to a lot of women. Personally, apart from the fashion stuff, I am always enjoying the little insights you give on your personal life. Your posts bring rays of sunshine, so thank you for all the efforts you go through to send us those posts, the beautiful pictures, fashion tips and your day-to-day life. Big hug from The Netherlands! XX Connie
June 8, 2021 @ 11:13 am
I love this jacket and you just reassured me, I bought a similar one from St. John because it had the Chanel look. Thank you!
And, if someone doesn’t like what you are blogging about or a particular item, then don’t read the blog! It takes more energy to be mean and ugly. Just everyone be nice!!!!
Please keep writing and entertaining us ‘mature’ ladies!!!
June 8, 2021 @ 11:56 am
I also look forward to reading your post. I love hearing what’s going on in your life and to see what you are wearing. I remember reading that comment about your sunglasses and thought it was very nasty. I don’t understand why someone would say that just to be mean and I’m like you it would bother me. I wanted to say something to her and regret I didn’t.
June 8, 2021 @ 12:01 pm
I find you inspirational! Your posts are so personal and sweet! I look forward to reading them! Your style is so cute and I like that you show items in various price ranges. Please keep up the great work!
June 8, 2021 @ 12:02 pm
I find you inspirational! Your posts are so personal and sweet! I look forward to reading them! Your style is so cute and I like that you show items in various price ranges. Sending love and positive vibes your way today!
June 8, 2021 @ 12:03 pm
I find you inspirational in your clothes that you show and how you handle your life! Your posts are so personal and sweet! I look forward to reading them! Your style is cute and I like that you show items in various price ranges. Sending love and positive vibes your way today!
June 8, 2021 @ 12:10 pm
Cathy,
I love your style, your hair, your home and enjoy looking at your fashion advice. After all, that’s why I’m here! If it works for me, fantastic. If not, I won’t be looking for one to buy just like it. I think I’ll try a beautiful jacket with straight jeans this fall for a dressy casual look.- Thnx!
I’ve often wondered if some of these folks who post ugly comments are hiding behind a false user name and trolling? They seem happy to think they can destroy an individual they don’t personally know with ugly comments. Doesn’t work that way. Bottom line, the inappropriate public comments make them appear insecure, mean spirited or just jealous. Keep on keeping on !
June 8, 2021 @ 12:16 pm
love your outfit and your spirit … don’t waste your time on the “haters” life is too shot
June 8, 2021 @ 12:39 pm
Your post today reminded me of a quote I try to live by: don’t take criticism from anyone you wouldn’t take advice from. Let the haters go Kathy. I love your blog, particularly your copy because I too am a writer and find your blog witty and fun to read. Sometimes I’m disheartened by the cost of what your wear and post and I sometimes feel you dress too young for your age and your audience, but I learn from you each time and take what I like and leave what I don’t. Keep being you and know you are appreciated!
June 8, 2021 @ 2:29 pm
Life is too short to have a comment or two get you down. Keep inspiring us!
June 8, 2021 @ 3:24 pm
Cathy you rock that look! Forget the haters. Love your blog.
June 8, 2021 @ 5:42 pm
Sunglasses . . . really??? I had to go and look up some older posts just to see what was sooo offensive! If she’s that disgusted with them, perhaps she should have a solution rather than whining and trolling and send you some to review – Oliver Peeples, Prada, Warby Parker, Chanel, Foster Grants, etc. Unbelievable.
One of my best friends gets trolled all the time. Needless to say, they get blocked. Hope you are able to do the same!
We’re in your corner!!!
June 8, 2021 @ 6:35 pm
I would wear the sunglasses everyday. Hoping whoever leaves a crappy comment grows to love them. Don’t let it bother you. Some people are just nasty and don’t know any better.
June 9, 2021 @ 11:31 am
I love the sunglasses so much that I bought the same pair when you posted a few years ago! Forget about the naysayers and the meanies! I have purchased this jacket! You know it when you see it that it was meant to be, damn the cost, lol! Love your posts for years.
June 9, 2021 @ 6:02 pm
Cathy, I hope you are feeling the LOVE! You are an inspiration to us all. You are beautiful inside and out. As the Taylor Swift song says-Shake it off! Shake it off!
All good things to you,
Suzanne
June 9, 2021 @ 6:58 pm
Cathy, Thank you for braving the nasties and continuing to provide beautiful content for us! I love your blog. Our demographic is sorely under-represented in the lifestyle blogging sphere and I get excited when I see a new post to enjoy. Your photography and your modeling of your fashion finds is gorgeous – as are you! Carry on and ignore the trolls as best you can, they come out because it’s lonely and cold under their bridges, don’t let them drag you under.
June 10, 2021 @ 9:03 am
I’m so sorry that someone has been so mean and hurtful to you. Don’t let them steal your joy! Like I tell my daughter, you can see the state of a persons heart by what comes out of their mouth. Words are meant to build each other up, not tear them down. You are an awesome blogger, and I love your fashion sense.
June 10, 2021 @ 10:36 am
Cathy,
I have known you for a very long time—- well before the days of the-middlepage. You are one of the most positive, kind, gracious women I know. It simply is who you are. Do not let the unkind words of a few anonymous, petty people deter you from continuing to be your authentic self. Social media and the internet have brought about many positive changes, but it has allowed for negativity as well. Just keep doing what you are doing! I love your blog- and love the way you combine the inexpensive with the couture— you have a knack for putting together the unexpected and it is timeless. Be well, be happy and thank you for this bright spot in my week!