THE PERFECT SUMMER DRESS


The Perfect Summer Dress
Hi, everyone! I hope you had a great Memorial Day weekend! We left Montgomery on Saturday to drive to Rosemary Beach in Florida. When we got there, I could not believe how many people were there. It was like Coney Island! No one was wearing a mask, and the beach was so crowded. The chairs on the beach did not seem to be spaced out at all. We took the longest bike ride on Sunday morning and then sat on the beach for a while. Our trip was cut very short because we got up on Monday morning and drove eleven hours back to Dallas.
My dad had been status quo (for him) before we left, and on Saturday, my mom said that he seemed to be having a little trouble breathing and that they were giving him oxygen. I asked if she thought we should come back and she said she didn’t think so. On Sunday evening, I called and told her that I thought we should come back, and she said that we probably should. We got back Monday night and went straight to see him.
Their building has been on lockdown, but because things are dire, they let us in. I could not believe how fast things have changed in the week it’s been since I saw him last. I know there are so many tragic ways to die, but Parkinson’s has been horrible to watch. My dad has had so many bad health issues (polio, cancer, deadly peanut allergy, Guillain-Barre’ Syndrome, and was toxic from MRSA staph), but he has been like a cat with nine lives and fought them all. Parkinson’s is what is definitely going to take him, and it’s not nice. I’m praying that it goes quickly with no pain.
Sorry to be such a downer, but it’s where I am right now.
I am so blessed to have had both my parents this long when so many of my friends have already lost theirs. I am not sure what the next few days or weeks will bring, but we are in preparation mode.
So, let’s get to what I usually do post about, and that is fashion and fluff! The dress that I am showing is, in my opinion, the perfect summer dress (especially for this crazy time). This embroidered dress has a relaxed fit with an adjustable tie front. It’s 100% cotton and machine washable and falls loosely over the body. It’s available in black here but does come in a few more colors (some limited sizes). It looks great with a flat sandal, wedges, or a boot. It’s a great dress for running around, wearing at the beach, or just lounging at home. I am wearing the XS. The best part is that it’s on sale making it THE perfect summer dress! This will be a go-to throw on dress for me all summer, but first, I really need to throw on some self-tanner!
Speaking of self-tanner, I am OBSESSED with this one! It is truly the first self-tanner (developed in Dallas) that does not make me smell like a dirty wet dog. It’s also the first to have CBD in it.
You can get 10% off with Code: Cathy10.
I have to admit that I do love shoes, but since Covid-19, I have only purchased one new pair for summer (which I just got). I have been pulling out all of my sandals from last summer and wearing those. Still, I love the Gucci sandals that I am wearing in the photos. I bought them in black and gold last year. They work with everything I wear in the summer. They might be a little more expensive, but I wore them everywhere last summer and will again this summer (cost per wear!).

Shooting at Home
I am sure you all are getting sick of the locations in my recent photos because I am. I have been shooting at home, and I hope to venture out for the next photoshoot. It has been so nice though, not to have to change my clothes in the car and flash everyone that walks by! I hope you all will bear with me.
As I said, I am not sure how the next days or weeks will go. After my dad transitions, we will be moving my mom to our house for a while. We have a condo in Dallas that we have kept for her, but we have a renter occupying it, and he is 99 years old, and we adore him. You see the predicament we are in! We think that my mom being with us will be good for her to start to get her life back. She has taken care of my dad for such a long time, and that has been her life. If your parents are still here, make sure you call them or visit them. I am regretting not spending more time with my dad.
Thank you for reading, and I hope you have a great day!
Photos: Danielle Sabol
Dress // Sandals (similar) // Bag (similar)

May 27, 2020 @ 8:58 am
Cathy,
Keeping you and your family in our prayers and close in our heart ❤️
May 27, 2020 @ 9:02 am
Cathy, my thoughts are with you and your family during this time of transition – a perfect way to think of it. We brought my mom to stay with us for a few weeks and the time with her has been such a treasure. It’s not permanent – she will be ready to go back to her own house as these quarantines start to lift – but it’s been a blessing. I am sure she is so proud of you and I think you will both treasure together until she can move into the condo.
Parkinson’s is so hard…it sounds like your dad has fought a good fight. I pray he comes to an easy rest.
Xoxo your friend from that fun evening in NY at Bar Americain a million years ago! ❤️
May 27, 2020 @ 9:08 am
Cathy I can totally relate. My dad has dementia and he and my mom have been on lockdown since early March. I have only seen them twice since then. They are easing things up a bit here in Calgary, but it will be really nice when we can sit down and have a meal with them. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
May 27, 2020 @ 9:17 am
Prayers for you and your family Cathy. It is so hard to see our loved ones suffer. No matter how old we are, our parents are our rock and to get ready to say goodbye is so difficult.
May 27, 2020 @ 9:26 am
Hi Cathy
I’m so sorry to hear about your father. My dad died almost 3 years ago from Alzheimers and was in a memory care unit with my mom. His decline was steady, but then very quick at the end. My mom has been on lockdown and I haven’t been able to see her in over 6 weeks. This is such a hard time and even worse because of COVID. I will keep you in my prayers.
As aways I love your fashion and want to purchase everything you wear!
May 27, 2020 @ 10:50 am
Dear Cathy,
My Dad passed away on Thanksgiving Day 2018 from Parkinson’s. His decline sounds exactly like your Dad’s. He knew I would take care of my mother as your Dad knows you will of yours.
As hard as it is, seeing his compromised body is also difficult. Happy memories of your Dad will soon appear.
God Bless you, your Mom and your entire family.
May 27, 2020 @ 12:11 pm
I know how hard this must be. Sending blessings and positive thoughts to you & your family!
May 27, 2020 @ 1:24 pm
Cathy, my Dad had Parkinson’s, and I’m sorry that has been your journey, too. He sounds like such an exceptional man. As for feeling badly about not spending more time with him, I’m sure he thought of you as the most precious, wonderful daughter in the world. Please, no regrets for you.
May 27, 2020 @ 1:44 pm
Cathy, I’m so sorry ,my grandmother had Parkinson’s disease , so I understand !Yes, you are lucky to have both of your parents still with you ! I know that you will be a great comfort to your mom, and her to you as well !
Thinking of you and your sweet family ❤️
May 27, 2020 @ 6:52 pm
I am so sorry to hear about your dad Cathy. Your family will be in my prayers.❤️????????
May 28, 2020 @ 1:05 pm
Aww, thank you, Liz! It’s a tough time! Sending love to you all!
May 28, 2020 @ 1:10 pm
Kelly! I know exactly who you are just by your name! That was a fun night in NY! It makes me wonder how that city will be going forward. It really is a tough time for us but for so many other people. I am fortunate that the building they live in will let us come in every few days to see him. So many others can’t even see their sick family members. My dad has had a good life, but it was filled with a lot of bad health issues. I can’t wait for him to get to heaven and get a perfectly healthy body back. I hope you are doing well and love hearing from you! Let me know if you are ever in Dallas! Stay healthy and safe! xx
May 28, 2020 @ 1:13 pm
I am so sorry, Joanne! We are so blessed to have had our parents for as long as we have! I am so sorry that you can’t see them often. This time really does suck! I pray that you will get lots of precious time with them when things ease up. Enjoy them and get those memories in! Stay safe and prayers for. you and yours as well! xx
May 28, 2020 @ 1:14 pm
Patricia! Thank you so much for such a sweet comment! It is difficult but I know he will be made healthy and whole when he gets to Heaven! Stay well! xx