AG Alexa Chung Pixie Shirtdress And My Neck
Last week I was lamenting about how my knees look in shorter dresses. I still don’t like them, but I bought this cute AG for Alexa Chung anyway (in corduroy ). When it arrived, I was trying it on, and my husband walked in on me. He started howling and doing a little ‘heehaw-esque” jig! He asked me if I was going “country” since we are now in Nashville. Ha! I told him he knew nothing of what was hot right now, and that would be denim of any kind. I think this dress is adorable, and very comfy! I threw on my booties, but I think a sandal or a “new” (believe me, these are big again) would be great with it.
Back to my knees and other issues. I had to run an errand last week in a nearby mall. There was a kiosk and a man and a woman trying their best to get me to come over and look at the skincare they were selling. I politely told them “no thank you”, but they pretty much chased me down. The skincare line was Israeli, and the young man was too. He told me that I was so “cute” and that my facial skin was great. Then he asked me what I was going to do about my neck. “What do you mean?”, I asked. He said that my neck did not match my face. Little did he know, that I have been watching the demise of my neck like a hawk! Did anyone read Nora Ephron’s book, “I Feel Bad About My Neck”? Well, I feel bad about my neck!!!!!!! My favorite quote from the book, is…“Anything you think is wrong with your body at the age of thirty-five you will be nostalgic for at the age of forty-five.” How true is this??? He slapped a mask on my neck, and waited a few minutes, explaining to me why I needed it. Then it was removed, and I swear I think it looked a little better. Uggghhhhh, I bought the neck cream they were selling!!! What is wrong with me?
I bring this up, because today is my birthday. I have to admit, I have lied about my age at times. Of course my family and friends know, but when others have asked me, I have lied down by a couple of years. So I am nostalgic for my neck from a decade ago. Who would have thought ten years ago, that I would be yearning for that neck! The real truth, is that I am “double nickels” today. I am not lying anymore. I am so thankful for each birthday that comes, for I get to enjoy and watch each stage of my children and grand children. I get to spend time with friends and family and I get to travel and experience different places. I just am so lucky and grateful to get up each morning and breathe! So do I feel bad about my neck? Yes, but I am going to embrace it the best way I can, and if that means a “little” help at some point, then so be it, but for now, I am happy!
Hoping you have a great day!!!
Photos: Kelsey Cherry
Dress//, Booties// (old), but love and , Bag// , Ring// KENDRA SCOTT, Laptop Sleeve// CUYANA
sheron
August 17, 2015 @ 2:48 pm
I don,t know your age, but I think you look fantastic!
I’m 58 years old and when I tell them my age they can’t believe it.
I have been blessed…. no wrinkles on Mt face or neck so far. It
must be good genes and $8.00 cream that I have been using for
almost twenty years. If I told you what it is you would not believe
me.
Continue what you are doing you inspire all of us. Love your style!
Lucinda
August 17, 2015 @ 3:51 pm
Happy Birthday to you! I just had mine on Saturday (53) . I know exactly what you mean about your neck. My 15 year old is learning how to drive, so many times she is driving, my husband is in the passenger seat and I have been sitting behind her. When you sit behind the driver the rear view mirror reflects directly on my neck. It’s never been something I’ve ever noticed before wow is it an eye opener. I now sit behind my husband, it’s stressful enough having my daughter learning to drive sure don’t need to be studying my neck too. BTW…love your hair cut!
Lisa
August 17, 2015 @ 7:13 pm
Hi there! Absolutely love the denim dress – it looks fabulous on you. By the way, I NEVER lie about my age because if you say you’re younger than you are, people will think “Gee, she looks kind of old for (insert age)”. But if you give your true age people will think the opposite, “Wow, she looks good for her age!”. Try it, it works!! Have a fantastic week!
Emily Lunstroth
August 17, 2015 @ 7:19 pm
Hahaha love this look and you crack me up!!!
Cher
August 18, 2015 @ 12:43 am
Happy Birthday!!! And wishing you many, many more!!
Cathy Williamson
August 19, 2015 @ 12:10 am
Thank you so much, Cher!!!
Cathy Williamson
August 19, 2015 @ 12:10 am
Thank you luv…and it’s the truth!!! xoxo
Cathy Williamson
August 19, 2015 @ 12:13 am
Hi Lisa! Thank you!!!! You are right about the age thing. My mom started lying up! When she was 65, I remember her telling people she was 75. Exact comments you mentioned above!!!! Thanks for reading and commenting! xoxo
Cathy Williamson
August 19, 2015 @ 12:16 am
Thank you, and Happy Birthday to you, Miss Leo! OMG!!! I know what you mean about the rear view mirror! SCARY! You know what’s worse? Looking down at a mirror YIKES! I guess it’s much better than the alternative! Hang in there with the driving lessons!!! Thanks for reading and commenting!xoxo
Cathy Williamson
August 19, 2015 @ 12:18 am
Sheron- you are so sweet! I am 55. You are definitely blessed to not have wrinkles! Okay…now you have to tell me what you use on your face!!!!! Thank you for your sweet words, and for reading! xoxo
sheron
August 19, 2015 @ 3:29 pm
Hi Cathy,
You look bueatiful and fantastic!
Many years ago I saw a lady on the Oprah show. She was in her
sixties and looked in her early forties. She did not have any wrinkles
on her face or neck. She said she uses Vagisol cream from the drug store.
It is a very moisture cream for a very delicate area. Made sense to me.
Mentioned it to my doctor and he said he did not see any harm. I started
to use it every night. What a difference to my skin. Friends and strangers
would ask what my secret is. I was so pleased with the product, contacted
told them told them how I usee the cream.
I’m sorry Cathy, I don’t have a picture here to show you. I’m not good
with all this new technology…Old school…Lol You can see recent photos
of me on FB.
You are a very beautiful lady and I love your story and style.
Please continue doing what you are doing. Can’t wait for more.
Thank you for inspiring us all.
Sheron
Jeila Kershaw
August 22, 2015 @ 3:39 am
Girl power! Do what you have to do, keep your outside up with how you feel inside!
Cathy Williamson
August 22, 2015 @ 8:44 pm
Jeila! Thanks for the comment! I am in so agreement with you!!! xoxo
Cathy Williamson
August 22, 2015 @ 8:53 pm
Hi Sheron! I am so interested in this comment! I swear, I might head to the drugstore now!!!!! What do you tell your friends when they ask what you are using???? I guess it would sound similar to telling someone that you use “preparation H” under your eyes for bags!
I am not great with technology either!!!! Going to look at Facebook. Thank you so much for the sweet comments! Keep in touch!!! xoxo
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Cathy Williamson
September 9, 2015 @ 1:04 am
How sweet of you to mention me on your blog! I am so happy to know about you!!!!! xx