I LOVE LEOPARD
Good Morning! How is everyone? I am so excited because I have a lot of new subscribers and I wanted to say thank you for following along with me. I have never done this in the 5 1/2 years I’ve had this blog, but I thought I should share a bit about me. If this sounds boring, I don’t mind you moving on today, promise! I love leopard would be a great start!
A little bit about me
I was born in San Angelo, Texas, then moved to Dallas where my mom is from. I went to Southern Methodist University (literally down the street from my parents home) and met my husband there. We have been married for thirty-five years now and have known each other forty years this month (that is crazy to me because I’m not even forty, am I?). We have three children (33, 31, and 28) who are the most amazing kids. They are indeed not perfect, but they are the light of my life, as well as two grandchildren who ARE perfect! I love my family and would rather be with them than anyone! My oldest son has always said that we should have been Italian because we are loud and have the best time together!
My husband is from Montgomery, Alabama. We got married after we graduated from SMU and lived in New York for a year together, then moved to Montgomery where all of the kids were born. We lived there for eight years, then moved to Nashville and lived there for ten years. After Nashville, we moved to Birmingham, Alabama and lived there for ten years. When our last kid flew the coop (they all headed to Dallas and went to SMU as well), we decided to move to Dallas, where they all were as well as the rest of my family.
After about a year living in Dallas, my daughter in law and I started a rainwear line called, She Reigns. With no “real” background in fashion, we figured out how to get the coats designed and manufactured. About a year into it, I decided to start this blog too. Both of the above mentioned were the hardest things I’ve ever done until the REAL SHIT hit the fan!
The shit hits the fan
Two months into the blog, I was diagnosed with a very aggressive form of breast cancer, called, Triple Negative. Our family was turned upside down. I never imagined that I would get breast cancer. My paternal grandmother had hormonal fed breast cancer (late in life), but no one in my family has had Triple Negative. Within two weeks of my diagnosis, I had a double mastectomy, then had a month to heal before starting chemotherapy. Chemo lasted four months and then I had six weeks of radiation. Praise God that I am healed and living life (I am a Christian)!
One of the biggest blessings and privileges for me is to help other women who are going through breast cancer. Sometimes I feel like throwing in the towel with this blog, but I will get an email from someone diagnosed who found my blog, and it makes what I do worth it! I give everyone that has emailed me my phone number and tell them to call me immediately. I really do want to help!
Some little facts that make me, me!
I’m a pretty healthy eater (except for the occasional french fries that have to be extra crispy!) and follow a mostly Paleo diet. I love red wine (cabs) and dark chocolate. I have both Type A and B in my personality (I am a Leo). I’m outgoing, love people and love to talk. This used to drive my children crazy, but I think they appreciate it now.
A few health issues that I deal with are a few side effects from the chemo, like strange rashes and tingling arms. I also have eczema, IBS, Raynaud’s, and fibromyalgia. If any of you have those things, I feel for you!
A dirty mind is part of my makeup, and I will throw out a curse word or two when needed. I have an aversion to some words. I LOATHE the word, moist. Also, I can’t say it, and it hurts my ears to hear it. I’m not a professional writer and I know I make a lot of mistakes. I write out my post the way I talk so please forgive my errors!
A question that is asked a lot, is do I make money doing this? This is a business and I have to run it like one. I have to pay tech support, my photographer, a manager, and a girl that does my Pinterest and newsletter. The way I make money is through collaborations with brands, or through Reward Style. If someone purchases something through my blog, I get a commission (small, but it’s something). It takes me about three to four hours to create a post. All that said, I am so grateful that I get to do this!
I love Leopard – It’s my favorite color
So, that’s me in a nutshell. I am an open book (most of the time) and will tell you anything you want to know. If you have questions, let me know! As I was turning 50, I remember being a little angry that women were expected to look and act like grandmothers. That was part of the reason for starting this blog. I did not feel like I looked like a grandmother and I didn’t feel “old.” I hope that this blog gives you a little inspiration to dress and feel the way YOU choose to. Okay, let’s get down to fashion (which is one of my passions). I love leopard anything!
Y’all, I bought this coat back in August after years of searching for the right one, and I have barely worn it. I think I searched for so long that I am afraid to wear it! Anyway, I found these jeans by Mother and had a fit for them. How fun are the rhinestones under the ripped knees? If you don’t know how I feel about ripped jeans at the knee, read about that here. While out shopping, I have seen a lot of embellishments coming back on denim — lots of pearls and rhinestones. I love wearing a simple top like this turtleneck with these jeans.
Okay, that’s it for today. We are heading to Nashville for an engagement party tomorrow, and I am so excited to see all of my friends there. I am so thankful to have you all as readers and would love to know what you all would like to see here. If you have ideas or suggestions, I would love to hear them!
Have a fantastic Thursday and a great weekend! xx
Photos: Danielle Sabol
Cashmere Turtleneck (on sale) // Denim // Coat // Booties // Bag (similar here) // Belt
SAME LOOK FOR LESS
Turtleneck // Denim // Coat // Booties // Bag // Belt










January 10, 2019 @ 8:30 am
Love your blog and love your style ,so glad you are blogging and of course I love the cost
January 10, 2019 @ 9:51 am
Loved today’s blog! Very interesting! I’m 74 and dress very similar to your style. Thanks for making me feel like I don’t look like a fool! I don’t look like a great grandmother either!????
January 10, 2019 @ 10:04 am
Great ripped knee info!! Thanks for sharing your story as well.
January 10, 2019 @ 11:10 am
Loved your blog today, thank you for sharing. There’s breast cancer in my family (mom and aunt) so I think what you’re doing is great as my mom didn’t have anyone to talk to who had been through that journey.
You have great style and are one of the very few bloggers who are over 50 (my age) whose fashion style I can relate to and want to learn from.
Keep up the great work and stay healthy!
January 10, 2019 @ 12:06 pm
I loved reading your blog today. I am always in awe of those who are able to use this platform to share their personal stories. That kind of sharing can really help to put all that life throws at us into perspective. My 81 year old mother is a breast cancer survivor. She is my inspiration. Like you, I too have moved around a bit in my life. I was born in Omaha, NE, but I have lived in upstate NY, Ohio, Illinois, Missouri, South Carolina and New Mexico.
Thanks again for your words!
–Marlene
January 10, 2019 @ 1:38 pm
Lovely post Cathy! I just started following your blog this year. I’m 58 years old, but I don’t want to dress like most 58 year old women. I love your style. I too have multiple chronic diseases which stem from pulmonary sarcoidosis. It’s even harder to pronounce! I try to live each day with a grateful heart, as I know you do too. I also vowed to continue to be stylish even though my treatment plan can cause significant weight gain. Your blog provides me a lot of inspiration. Keep on “stylin” girlie!
January 10, 2019 @ 2:35 pm
Thank you for sharing your story. You’re a delightful soul and it was great to learn more about you! I enjoyed your humor & humility.
January 10, 2019 @ 3:01 pm
I never knew you lived in Birmingham! I grew up there and lived in Homewood. Tough BAMA loss recently. 🙁 I hope I can age as gracefully as you xoxo
January 10, 2019 @ 3:36 pm
I love that coat! Wish I could wear one here in Florida, but it is just too hot! Sorry to hear about all your health problems. My husband also had cancer but is now cancer free. I know from watching him how difficult Radiation and chemo is. I love reading your blog!
January 10, 2019 @ 4:16 pm
I think you are so pretty! We are the same age, been married the same amount of years and I have three grown children same ages as you! I’d say we have a lot in common! Although, I have 4 grandchildren (2 were twins so we cheated a little)..and shit has definitely hit the fan in our family too.. but not in the form of cancer. You have handled your “shit” well and praise God you are cancer free! I can’t imagine how tough that was… oh.. I’m the one that loves MacKenzie Childs too! It’s all over my house! I sent you pictures. We have that in common too!
Take care and thanks for sharing! Happy 2019! ❤️
January 10, 2019 @ 5:18 pm
I absolutely love your coat and those fabulous jeans. I love reading your posts but don’t always have time to leave comments. I also admire your attitude and positive approach to life Cathy xxxx
January 10, 2019 @ 5:51 pm
Thank you for sharing your story! You are such an inspiration to me and a role model and guiding light for all those you reach out to!
January 10, 2019 @ 6:41 pm
This is awesome ???? I also have 3 amazing children and my youngest graduated from SMU. I am Italian lol and leopard is my everything. I own a few Pure Barres and married my childhood sweetheart. You rock and God bless you. Xo Elle
January 10, 2019 @ 7:01 pm
I have been a subscriber to your blog for some time now and have admired your sense of style and your selection of outfit combinations.
Today, however, I was absolutely shocked and dismayed to discover that your featured leopard fur coat was actually made from real leopard skin(s)! With all that we know about the rapid decline towards extinction of wild animal species world-wide and the urgency to preserve whatever still exists, and the fact that the fashion industry now makes faux-every-kind-of-fur imaginable, I find your choice to be ill-conceived and problematic. Thankfully, I can’t see too many women having the financial resources to rush out and purchase such an investment worth several thousand dollars, but I still think you need to take some ethical responsibility for what you recommend to your readers as preferred fashion investments.
If you truly “love leopard” so much, why not buy the pseudo-leopard material to appease your love of it so that you aren’t promoting or participating in the practice of killing endangered animals?
January 10, 2019 @ 7:39 pm
Always love your blog but especially today. Thank you for being so “real” and sharing your personal journey. You look FABULOUS by the way…love your attitude about dressing how you WANT to, not what is “expected” of a certain age.
January 10, 2019 @ 8:30 pm
I always look forward to reading your blog and the fashion inspiration you share! I admire your fashion choices, and I admire your choice to share your personal journey. Thank you so much! God bless you!
January 11, 2019 @ 4:31 am
I loved hearing your story Cathy. I am a two time survivor, colon and then breast. I wish I had see your blog at the time I was going through, as they were within 3 years of each other, I was so angry and it was a very hard time for me. Praise God I am back to myself and heathy going on 4 years! You are a blessing and the fashion is great too!
January 11, 2019 @ 7:24 am
Loved today’s blog! You got it going on!????????????????
January 11, 2019 @ 8:15 am
Hi Cathy! I met you (in person) in Telluride this summer at the Starbucks. Remember??? I was afraid you would think I was stalking you, but I was so excited to meet you in person! 🙂 Anyways, thank you for sharing your “back story”. I knew from reading your blog that you are a breast cancer survivor, but I didn’t know that you and your DIL had started a rainwear company! I always look forward to reading your blog and seeing what fashion trends you’re embracing. I also love that you keep it real! Enjoy the weekend!
Katie
Omaha, NE
January 11, 2019 @ 9:35 am
I love your blog! Funny- I bought the same coat after searching for a while, and I have yet to wear it. I will have to wear it this weekend!
You are incredibly stylish and I enjoy reading your entries!
January 11, 2019 @ 12:24 pm
Man your a rock star! I just love you to pieces! Thanks for sharing you! It is hard giving people a story, I applaud you for your Cander and love following you!
January 11, 2019 @ 4:45 pm
Hi, Margie! Thank you so much for your sweet comment! I so appreciate it! I love the coat too! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:47 pm
Hey, Brigette! Hardly a rockstar, but thank you so much! It is so hard for me to talk about myself, but I think that if I share things that others can identify with, then it’s all good! Wait until this next week (I think). I’m posting a doozy!!! Love you, girl! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:48 pm
Chase, cannot believe you got the same coat after searching for a while too! Amazing! Don’t you just love it? Thank you so much for reading my posts! Means so much to me! Have a great weekend! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:52 pm
Hi, Katie! Of course, I remember meeting you! I didn’t think you were stalking me at all! All I remember is how disheveled I was because the internet was not working in the house we were staying in. I was so glad you said something!!! My daughter in law and I thought we had such a great thing, and it might have been had the “C” word not shown up. I had to stop because of that reason and my DIL had a new baby.
I try to keep it real and hope that if I ever don’t, someone will call me out on it. Thank you so much for this comment! I appreciate it so much! Hope your New Year is off to a great start! Keep in touch!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:52 pm
Thank you, dahling!!!!!! Can’t wait to see you!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:57 pm
Deborah! Bless your bones! You are a badass warrior, woman! I understand the anger part, but as I was telling a newly diagnosed friend, sometimes I think you are chosen for a reason. I know that sounds weird, but I think some really are to help others who are going through it. I pray that God uses me all the time for that reason. I am so happy that you are doing well and are healthy. You stay that way!!! Thank you so much for your kind words, I appreciate them so much!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 2:58 pm
Melanie! Thank you, thank you, thank you! This comment is so sweet and I so appreciate it! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 3:00 pm
Hi, Mary! Thank you for your sweet comment! I appreciate it very much! Gotta do your thing!!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 3:10 pm
Hi, Lynne! Thank you for being a subscriber to the blog. I am so sorry that you thought that I was wearing REAL Leopard. I AM NOT! The coat I am wearing is made from dyed cowhide (you can check the link in the post for the exact coat). That may upset you too, but I do wear leather. I do understand the urgency to preserve the animals, but I have recently learned that faux fur is made from plastic and that is problematic as well.
I would never ever wear or hurt any endangered animal and so sorry that you thought that of me.
January 12, 2019 @ 3:13 pm
Hi, Elle! Look at us! We are similar and I love that you had a MUSTANG! I love that you are Italian! So exotic and fun. Where are your Pure Barres? I have a good friend that owns one as well in Sarasota. Thank you so much for commenting! You are so very sweet! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 3:39 pm
Hey, Blan! Your comment is the sweetest and you are a dear! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 3:59 pm
Thank you, Hilda! I love the coat and jeans too! Thank you for reading the blog posts and no worries about commenting! I so get it!!! You are so sweet! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:03 pm
Mary! You are so sweet! We have so much in common! Crazy! You did cheat a little with the grandchildren! Aren’t they the best??? I hope your “shit hit the fan” time is over in your family. We all have to go through different challenges in life. Not fun, but hope that it changes us for the better. I remember you loving MacKenzie! It’s so much fun! I hope you have an amazing year and that it is blessed with lots of goodness! Thank you so much for commenting!!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:07 pm
HI, Linda! You definitely cannot have this coat living in Florida. Thank you for your kind words. I am so happy that your husband is doing well! Praise God! Thank you so much for your sweet comment! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:10 pm
I did live in Birmingham, small world! We lived in the Abingdon area off of 280. Where are you now? It was a tough loss. My husband and boys were bummed! Your comment is very sweet! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:11 pm
Jill, thank you so much for such kind words. I so appreciate your comment!!! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:16 pm
Hi, Lisa! Thank you so much for following the blog! I am with you on your view of dressing! I don’t think we have to dress like grannies! I am so sorry that you have the chronic diseases that you have. I didn’t know what pulmonary sarcoidosis was and had to look it up. I’m sorry that you have to deal with that, but your attitude sounds so healthy! Thank you so much for your kind words. It makes it all worth it for me! I hope you have a wonderful year! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:32 pm
Hey, Marlene! Thank you so much for commenting! I think we can all help each other out by sharing! Your mom is my hero! I love hearing about survivors as it gives me such hope! You have moved around a ton! We have a great friend from Omaha and my daughter in law is from Columbus, Ohio. As hard as moving is, it does expand your world so much! I hope you have a great New Year! xx
January 12, 2019 @ 4:35 pm
Thank you so much, Julie and thank you for reading! I hope your mom and aunt are doing great. It is a lonely place to be when going through cancer. I hope women can relate to my style and to my honesty because we don’t have to dress like grandmoms! Thank you so much for commenting! I so appreciate it!
January 12, 2019 @ 4:36 pm
Deborah! Haha! I hope you got it. I think I ruined ripped jeans for another reader! Oooops! Thank you so much for your comment! xx
January 13, 2019 @ 8:21 am
Hi Cathy,
Just wanted to tell you that I had fibromyalgia and IBS and was completely cured by using the work of Dr. Howard Schubiner (Unlearn Your Pain on Amazon). There is a lot of info about him and his mentor Dr. John Sarno (now passed) on the net. Perhaps you have heard about them already but if not I felt compelled to tell you as I have been help so much
January 13, 2019 @ 10:09 am
Cathy, I am a new subscriber and love your blog. Being a woman of a certain age, I was having a hard time finding fashion blogs that fit. I love some of the young women’s blogs and adapted their fashions to be more “age-appropriate.” (I hate that phrase, but let’s face it, some fashions just do not work on me anymore.) Then I learned about your blog on NBC News and I’ve become a huge fan. I go back to some of your earlier posts. For example, I just read the one about leather leggings from Feb. 2017. Do you know the links still work and I ordered leggings from the Loft, on sale no less? I, too have had the shit hit the fan, (not cancer) three years ago and am finally moving into the sunshine. I look forward to your blog. You are so beautiful and so inspiring! Thank you.
January 13, 2019 @ 10:29 am
Hi, Kathie! Thank you so much for letting me know this. I have never heard of him, but will definitely be ordering the book! I will also pass along to other members of my family that also suffer. Love how we can all help each other out! Have a wonderful day!
January 13, 2019 @ 10:36 am
Hi, Bernadette! Thank you so much for subscribing to my blog! I completely understand your frustration in finding a blog that was relatable and “age appropriate”. That is exactly why I started this blog. Same thing! I was so honored to be asked to do the interview for Reward Style and NBC and hope that I can inspire women like yourself to re-invent and take “age appropriate” chances (I say that because I do think there are a few things that we really shouldn’t wear anymore). I am so happy the leggings were still in stock for you!
I’m sorry you’ve had to go through some shit, but I love that you are headed toward the sunshine!!!!! Thank you for this comment! It means alot! xxx